Post by Geoshi on Oct 31, 2008 22:23:31 GMT
Redone from "Marriage & Kids Under 21" from my Facebook blog - September 28th, 2008.
Ok, so I have about six friends, all who I remotely talk to,
Who have kids, or have gotten married under the age of twenty-one.
Is that a bad thing?
In their minds no, and in most cases, I support them in their decisions.
I'm moreso happy since they've found love, are happy, settled down,
All that stuff.
In some cases, stopped all their bad habits or "went cold turkey".
All cases, because of their kid(s).
I'm not going to start ripping everyone apart for their actions,
Since I can't damn anyone for having a baby, or getting married.
I'm moreso questions myself since in reality it looks like this;
All these people who are married, or have kids (or both) seem more happier, and better off, then myself.
I hope that made sence.
No, I am not like, deadly miserable living at home, or going to kill myself over being single.
I just think it's slightly ironic that the ones who made the early decisions to have a family are already moreso well off.
Again, not a bad thing, just a weird thing to note.
Maybe it's just me, who knows, but ya, I find it... I'll say weird.
Cause recently, another friend got married, who had a kid in advance.
Luckily, the dad stayed with her, and they have their family.
Actually, in all my cases, the dad has always stayed with the girl and are happy.
Least for the most part.
I don't really know where I'm going with this, just wanted to point it out.
I will say this; I am happy for each and everyone of you. Seriously, I am.
God speed, God bless, and all the other stuff God can do for you ladies (and guys),
Or whatever faith you believe in.
And that's my mini-rant.
Ok, so I have about six friends, all who I remotely talk to,
Who have kids, or have gotten married under the age of twenty-one.
Is that a bad thing?
In their minds no, and in most cases, I support them in their decisions.
I'm moreso happy since they've found love, are happy, settled down,
All that stuff.
In some cases, stopped all their bad habits or "went cold turkey".
All cases, because of their kid(s).
I'm not going to start ripping everyone apart for their actions,
Since I can't damn anyone for having a baby, or getting married.
I'm moreso questions myself since in reality it looks like this;
All these people who are married, or have kids (or both) seem more happier, and better off, then myself.
I hope that made sence.
No, I am not like, deadly miserable living at home, or going to kill myself over being single.
I just think it's slightly ironic that the ones who made the early decisions to have a family are already moreso well off.
Again, not a bad thing, just a weird thing to note.
Maybe it's just me, who knows, but ya, I find it... I'll say weird.
Cause recently, another friend got married, who had a kid in advance.
Luckily, the dad stayed with her, and they have their family.
Actually, in all my cases, the dad has always stayed with the girl and are happy.
Least for the most part.
I don't really know where I'm going with this, just wanted to point it out.
I will say this; I am happy for each and everyone of you. Seriously, I am.
God speed, God bless, and all the other stuff God can do for you ladies (and guys),
Or whatever faith you believe in.
And that's my mini-rant.